Gratitude offers numerous benefits, with one clear advantage: heightened awareness of what you are thankful for. Do you focus more on what you have or what you lack in life? A sense of lack is a major cause of unhappiness. Even those who are wealthy or have achieved much can be miserable if they habitually dwell on what is missing.
Do you compare yourself to others and wonder why you can't have what they have? Reflect on your thoughts when you experience disappointment because your expectations were not met. What do you complain about? If you're unhappy at work or in a relationship, consider how life would be without these. This isn't a call to settle or be content with less than you can achieve. If you are unhappy, consider steps to make a change. While planning for change, find things to appreciate in your current life.
We all have things to be grateful for at every moment. Whether it's our health, friends, family, or some other form of abundance, there's always something to be thankful for. When we focus on appreciation rather than complaints, we feel better. Pursuing change from a positive perspective of seeking better, rather than escaping dissatisfaction, improves our chances of finding true happiness.
The thoughts we internalize shape our intuitions and impulses. If our mental chatter is mostly negative, we internalize negative messages. In contrast, gratitude helps us internalize infinite possibilities for positive change.
Incorporate habits and routines into your daily life to cultivate gratitude. A gratitude journal, where you regularly list things you're thankful for, can be helpful. Alternatively, make a mental list before sleep to prime your mind for a positive start the next day. Set a goal to notice positive attributes in your day and in those around you. When faced with negative thoughts, try to reframe them from a more positive angle. By seeing opportunities over risks, kindness over malevolence, and optimism over fear, you'll notice your happiness increasing exponentially.
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